Archive for the 'GLBT' Category

Sweet (but a little heartbreaking) story about a mom and her transgender daughter

Friday, July 25th, 2008

Having attending high school in New Hampshire, I am familiar with Manchester and Nashua, NH. Not long after I started school in New Hampshire, I remember a popular school teacher (who also was out as a lesbian) giving a talk at our school assembly about her relief or maybe it was reassurance when she moved to New Hampshire and saw their state slogan on car license plates: "Live free or die."

Given that context - of a state that has historically valued living with freedom - this article is particularly interesting, loving and heartbreaking. I feel so much for the girl and her mom who seem to really value this girl’s right to live her life in a way that feels right and true to her. And I feel so confused about school systems that get that bent out of shape about the clothes children wear to school and whether they are "gender appropriate" (which really just means "gender traditional" - and as a FYI, it wasn’t that many years ago that adult women were forbidden to wear pants to work or school in many places, because they weren’t seen as gender appropriate). Ugh.

You can read the full article here.

Gay marriage opponents turning their noses at Happy Meals?

Wednesday, July 9th, 2008

Apparently some groups of gay marriage opponents have announced a boycott of McDonald’s. Something tells me that won’t last, particularly if their kids keep begging them for Happy Meals or a little time at the Golden Arches’ playgrounds. It makes me sad to think how parents will explain to their children that they cannot go to McDonald’s (hopefully not "because Mommy and Daddy don’t want other children to have two Daddies or two Mommies"). Ick, ick, ick.

Here’s one (kind of funnily-put) line from the Washington Post article:

"We’re saying that there are people who support AFA who don’t appreciate their dollars from the hamburgers they bought being put into an organization that’s going to fight against the values they believe in," Tim Wildmon, the association’s president, said yesterday.

Then there is the McDonald’s quote, which I like:

"Hatred has no place in our culture," McDonald’s USA spokesman Bill Whitman said. "That includes McDonald’s, and we stand by and support our people to live and work in a society free of discrimination and harassment."

You can read the full article on the Washington Post’s web site (you may need a free registration to view the whole article, which I recommend). Also, I am now feeling inclined to post some of my photos from Chicago Gay Pride here on MSP. Coming soon…

Flag Wars movie related to gentification

Friday, May 23rd, 2008

Although I enjoy watching some mainstream Hollywood movies (favorites include Juno, Royal Tennenbaums, Terms of Endearment, Napoleon Dynamite, Best in Show, and various Judd Apatow films), I tend to be more fascinated by and interested in independent films, foreign films and documentaries. I’m not sure why. Maybe it was all the French films we watched in French class growing up (which is how I first learned of Catherine Deneuve). After joining the sexuality research field, I eventually came upon The Dildo Diaries which is an interesting look into sexuality related laws in Texas - some remain to this today and others have since been struck down by the U.S. Supreme Court (such as the Texas sodomy law) or other courts.

In any case, recently I came across a film called Flag Wars, which is a look at what happened in one community in Ohio where mostly white gay men and a few lesbians (sometimes as singles, sometimes as couples) moved into a low-income, largely Black neighborhood, bought houses and improved upon them (i.e., gentrification), though not without conflict. As you may know, some people look favorably on gentrification as it can sometimes result in safer, more expensive, artsy, interesting neighborhoods. On the flip side, it often results in the displacement of the poorer long time residents of the area who can no longer afford to stay in their homes. Often this means older women and men being essentially forced from their homes. 

The film’s producers did a good job, I thought, of looking closely at everyone in the community and, seemingly, not taking sides. Though some of the long time residents perceived the white gay men as wealthy outsiders, in fact some of them were nowhere near wealthy (and by some people’s standards, buying a $30,000 tear-down and putting your own flesh and blood into its renovation isn’t exactly Trump style wealth). Then again, everything is relative and, in this neighborhood, these prices were seen by some as an absolute fortune, particularly given the neglect that the neighborhood had seen. 

There are some very touching moments, such as when community members come together to assist a resident in need of help, and when a zoning official gives breaks to a woman that others would have perhaps long cast aside. Another striking figure in the film is a Chief who runs a phenomenal gallery space inside his home and who patiently and articulately presents his case for his own zoning issues. Personally, I think this film is worth checking out and I would encourage you, if possible, to look for it at a local independent film store rather than getting it through Netflix or Blockbuster, but that’s just my own personal feeling.  Even if you do use Netflix, it would be a great one to add to your list.

Kinsey Confidential Podcast: Sexual Orientation

Thursday, March 27th, 2008

Here is another one of the Kinsey Confidential podcasts that I hosted - this one is related to sexual orientation. Learn more about Kinsey Confidential here.

 
 Sexual Orientation [3:01m]: Play Now | Play in Popup

Top Gun = gay?

Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

What is particularly interesting about this (too funny) clip is that a couple of years ago I attended a talk where the speaker made points about the homoeroticism displayed in talk (it was a "gender studies" talk). She wasn’t saying that it was "gay" - just that it was homoerotic. The shower scenes… the tanned, sweaty, shirtless volleyball scenes… but then there are also these moments where Top Gun is super stereotypically straight, like when the female instructor is talking and the wind is blowing her hair, but apparently nothing else in the room (like, none of the guys’ papers on their desks, and none of the guys’ hair… though perhaps that could be because of the amount of product in their hair, which is another issue altogether).

Anyway, here is the clip (thanks to reader Michael for sharing):

 

 

Juno, Labels, Melissa Etheridge concerts and more

Monday, March 3rd, 2008

In case you haven’t seen it yet, check out this SNL skit from the weekend:

 

Please please watch

Friday, February 29th, 2008

You may have heard about the 15 year old boy who was killed by another boy who he had asked to be his Valentine. Please watch Ellen DeGeneres’ brief discussion about this sad news.

 

 "When the message out there is so horrible that to be gay, you can get killed for it, we need to change the message. Larry was not a second class citizen. I am not a second class citizen. It is okay if you’re gay." - Ellen DeGeneres

Cunts for Fags

Saturday, February 16th, 2008

This is a phenomenal video of interviews with gay men who attended a Center for Sex and Culture class called "Cunts for Fags" where they help familiarize men who may be sex educators or in other positions where it would be helpful to learn more about vaginas and vulvas. You can view it on this web site.

Gay marriage (and gay rights) cartoons

Friday, February 15th, 2008

If you have some time,poke around this site for both their political cartoons and social commentary around issues of gay rights (including gay marriage, gay representation in films and other issues).

Men arrested, then released, in Senegal tied to gay wedding ceremony

Thursday, February 14th, 2008

Men in Senegal (where homosexuality is illegal) were apparently arrested and later released in connection to photos published that apparently depicted a same-sex wedding ceremony. The details around this are pretty hazy in spite of these two BBC reports (linked to earlier). Anyone have more information on this?