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When people miss planes

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

The above photo was taken by Peter Wynn Thompson and is from the New York Times web site, from an article about American Airlines’ flight cancellations. When I hear about cancelled flights, or when I see big traffic delays, I can’t help but think about the feelings and frustrations of the people who are caught in these situations. This is more about me and my experiences than anything else, I suppose, but it makes me wonder who, among those "stranded", is trying very hard to get home to a child they haven’t seen in a while, or to a marriage or relationship they are trying to save, or to a parent who is not well, or may be dying. Is this too morbid? I ask myself. I don’t mean these thoughts to sound morbid… but it’s part of life, right? That at any given moment, among a cancelled flight that was to carry 300 human beings to another location, surely one or two of them need to get somewhere so bad that it hurts. Something to think about when you’re caught in traffic or one of many passengers thwarted, that perhaps someone else who is feeling frustrated is really just desperately in need of help.

Vaccuum cleaner sex

Monday, March 3rd, 2008

This guy isn’t the first one to be caught having vaccuum sex, but he appears to be the lastest who was not only caught in the act, but who also had his escapade reported in the media. Read the full article here - also, when we women ask you to do your share of the housework, please know that this is not what we mean.

If only I had $1200 “extra” dollars…

Monday, February 25th, 2008

…I would buy these shoes. Wow. What do you think?

Give up sex for 6 months in exchange for a 50 inch plasma TV?

Tuesday, February 12th, 2008

That’s what this survey - commissioned, no less, than a place selling plasma TVs - would have you believe men would do. Read the coverage in the New York Times.

Babeland is giving away a sexy vacation

Sunday, February 10th, 2008

I shouldn’t mention it because clearly I want to win (!) but I will anyway: it appears that Babeland is having a give-a-way. If you sign up online to receive their newsletter or go in to their shop and complete an entry form, you can be entered to win a fabulous weekend get a way at an awesome hotel in South Beach, West Hollywood, NYC or or Seattle. 

I’ve actually stayed at one of the hotels before - the Standard in Miami Beach - and can confirm that it is SUPER sexy. The pool is incredible. The waterfall hot tub is ridiculously great. And the spa services and yoga center are cool. Not to mention the bathrooms and showers. There is some serious potential to be had in their showers. Read more about the give-a-way here

From the archives

Wednesday, February 6th, 2008

This is me last year. I was in Hyderabad, India to give a talk about women’s sexuality. It happened to fall over my birthday. That evening there was an indescribably wonderful evening celebration associated with the conference that I was speaking at - the celebration included amazing musical and dance entertainment, an outdoor dinner under the stars, and there were friends and colleagues around me so I decided that even though the celebration was for the conference, I would count it as my birthday party too. The event photographer later sent me this picture which I like because, looking at it now, I can remember how peacefully happy I was… not exuberantly, over-excited happy, but a very calm content (my favorite way to experience happiness).

I also like feeling this way when I am in love. 

Sure, the crazy excitement and butterflies in the stomach are fun at first… but technically that’s just our body’s stress response. We cannot live in that state forever, not being able to sleep or eat. Instead, it’s a calmer state of contentment and happiness that carries us through life with a partner. 

What do you think?

 

The song that makes men cry

Tuesday, February 5th, 2008

You can read about it here.

MSP Quote of the Day

Wednesday, January 30th, 2008

"I subscribed to Netflix a few weeks ago. I’m on my third DVD, which is the second one that’s too scratched to play. They have a good “send back your scratched discs!” policy. But I don’t care because it’s only once a week that I find time to settle down and watch a video, and if it gets interrupted, I’ll turn it off and go do something else. I feel like I’m an old married man with E.D." - Jakob Lodwick, on his tumblr

What are guys if they are not “in like”?

Wednesday, January 30th, 2008

On gchat a few minutes ago with a guy:

(a guy): you spelled a word wrong
me: which post
guy: the peanut butter. did you mean to say love not like?
me: i meant like
guy: deep like?
me: as opposed to deep love
like not love
i wasn’t in love
but i was in like
guy: i have never heard that before
sounds weird
me: you have never heard of being "in like"???? really?
guy: no
me: huh
girls say it a lot
it’s like crushing on someone
guy: no guy says that
me: you need a word for when you are not in love
but you really like someone
me: i am going to blog this
guy: girls are wierd like that

Manly umbrellas

Saturday, January 26th, 2008

I went out to dinner with one of my friends the other night and the guy she’s dating had this fantastic umbrella. He was in need of one pronto due to all the rain San Fran had been getting and so picked up an umbrella from a street vendor… only to learn later on that it had a rhinestone outline of a high heeled shoe and the Nicole Miller logo. Fancy, dude. Very fancy. Fortunately, he seems to have enough confidence to rock both his masculinity and this umbrella and not really care what other folks think.