Bleeding During Sex: Common Causes and Solutions
March 6th, 2009 | By Dr. Debby Herbenick
Question:
Dear Dr. Herbenick, I’ve been having sex with my boyfriend for more than a year. In the last couple of months, I’ve had bleeding during sex. It’s happened a bunch of times, it’s very embarrassing and I don’t know what’s causing it. Neither of us have had sex with other people since we got together, so it can’t be an STI, can it?
Answer:
I’m sorry to hear about your experiences with bleeding during sex. It can feel scary and, yes, sometimes embarrassing for some women to notice, especially when they have no idea why it’s happening to them. That said, vaginal bleeding is nothing you need to feel bad or embarrassed about, as bodies are quirky sometimes – and, for all their oddities – they are often very good at letting us know when something may be wrong and needs to be checked out by a healthcare provider. In my opinion, vaginal bleeding is always worth mentioning to one’s healthcare provider even though it’s not always a sign of a serious medical condition.
Although many women will notice small amounts of blood after sexual intercourse (this is often more easily noticed when one pees after sex or, the next day, in noticing small amounts of blood on one’s underwear), it is less common to notice more moderate or larger amounts of blood loss during sex itself. Here are some common causes of bleeding during or after intercourse… as well as, in some cases, what you can do about it.
Small amounts of bleeding noticed after intercourse may be caused by small vaginal tears (sometimes called “micro-tears”) in the vaginal wall or even on the vulva (the outside parts of a woman’s genitals). These often heal within 1-3 days after sex and may more easily heal if you try not to further aggravate these tears with more sex, masturbation, tampon use or other types of vaginal penetration (such as fingering). When a woman returns to sex, she and her partner might consider using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce friction and thus reduce the risk of more tearing which would – you guessed it – possibly result in more bleeding after sex.
Bleeding during or after sex can also be a sign of a sexually transmissible infection (STI) that may have caused irritation to or inflammation of a woman’s reproductive organs, such as her cervix and uterus. Often, however, STI-related bleeding also shows up as vaginal bleeding or discharge even on days when a woman is not having any sex at all. If a woman thinks there is any possible chance at all that she may have an STI, she should check in with her healthcare provider for STI testing and possible treatment. Some infections, such as chlamydia, can result in what’s called a “friable cervix” which is a cervix that is prone to bleeding (there are other causes of a friable cervix, too, and vaginal bleeding should always be checked out by a healthcare provider).
Benign growths in the uterus (such as polyps and fibroids) may also be linked to bleeding during or after intercourse and, again, this is a reason why vaginal bleeding should be brought to a healthcare provider’s attention as polyps and fibroids aren’t something you can diagnose yourself.
In rare cases, a bleeding disorder or other medical condition may be at the root of vaginal bleeding so don’t be afraid to return to your healthcare provider or seek a second opinion if you continue to bleed during or after sex even if or after you receive a diagnosis or treatment.
In some cases, a woman may notice blood coming from her vagina after sexual intercourse and think it’s her own blood, only to find that her partner had blood in his semen that he then ejaculated into her vagina, and as it came out (thanks to gravity!) it seemed like it was vaginal bleeding when in reality it was a reflection of the man’s health issues (not hers – and, yes, men should speak with their healthcare provider if they notice blood in their semen). So when a woman notices blood after intercourse, she might also ask her partner (if her partner is a man) whether he’s noticed any blood in his semen during recent acts of masturbation. If he hasn’t masturbated in a while, she might encourage him to (or they can engage in hand-penis couple play, aka a hand job) here and there to see if he has blood in his semen.
Bottom line: there are many possible causes of vaginal bleeding during or after sexual intercourse and women should always bring vaginal bleeding to the attention of their healthcare provider/gynecologist. To learn more about sexual health and gynecological issues, check out Our Bodies, Ourselves.
Learn more in Dr. Herbenick’s book, Because It Feels Good: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Pleasure & Satisfaction, and follow us on Twitter @mysexprofessor
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s Says:
hello
i would like to know if my hymen was torn and i haven’t undergone bforea sexual interaction..it is just that i felt a strong rash andi entered my fingers a bit to see suddenly i bled…is it torn? r there any other reasons..plz i need an answer
Posted on: May 2nd, 2009 at 4:12 pm
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Posted on: June 10th, 2009 at 8:19 am
sparton Says:
i am 22 years male.i got married before two weeks.i give unsatisfied sex to my wife till.i had in penis problem.my penis is not go to my wife pundanda(part).we take very risk to do but for my pines the blood was come.in my pemis under part to join testivles skin part the was was come.the blood will not come in urine way.and i had very less sperms.after the blood come for threee days my penis large and and pain.its is big or smaill problem.how to cure that and can i have childrens.please give me good solution.why i had the problems affect.whats it plese give the good advise and my wife want side position sex relation.for all position i try but the blood was come so please clear our problems
Posted on: June 15th, 2009 at 6:15 pm
amber Says:
well me and my girl fiend have been having sex for 5 months now and every time i bleed i was wonder if this i caused by the way we have sex. i was also diagnosed with ovroyen distorter about 3 months ago dose sex bother that
Posted on: July 16th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
TEAN Says:
I have been having sex with my husband ever since we got married 6 years ago and I have 2 kids. Just of recent I bled during sex, it was so profusing that i was highly embarrassed. Please I want to know if it is a serious problem because I am very afraid and what might have caused it because I have stopped pills for a very long time we are using condom. Thanks
Posted on: July 20th, 2009 at 10:49 am
Embarrassed Says:
My boyfriend and I had sex the other day, and either right after, or right at the end I started bleeding. It was sorta a heavy bleed. I figured since It was around my cycle i had started, but every since then I haven’t bleed, but i’ve got the cramps like i want to start. Is it possible that the bleeding was just because of my cycle or should i be more worried?
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Posted on: September 3rd, 2009 at 8:49 am
Penny Says:
Hi I am 47 and in the last couple of months have noticed that whilst my husband and my sex life is great have started to spot bleed during and after our lovemaking and this is becoming frustrating to say the least… I am pre menapoursal and my FSH and LTF levels have been checked and are a little low……
Posted on: September 12th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
tillet Says:
me and my girl had sex now she is having a strong sent of urin and a tinglin feeling .what is the coas of that and y is that happning ?
Posted on: September 22nd, 2009 at 7:11 pm
20 th Man Says:
lol…
why you doing sex with your boy/girl friend .?
can’t married before doing that ?
it’s better and you will feel more confort, like my experience..
believe me, my friends =)
Posted on: September 27th, 2009 at 6:44 am
20 th Man Says:
one thing again…
it’s fine, if doing sex 3 times/day?
sorry, coz i’m still 20th… have high of desire… n.n
thx b4…
Posted on: September 27th, 2009 at 7:21 am
o0omgee crazey Says:
every time i have sex i bleed it has become very embarrassing i began to think it was my partner but now i know it isn’t just because it has happened with different ones also i am scared and really sick of this happening i can not enjoy sex and most of the time try to avoid it im pretty sure it isn’t an sti since it happened my first time till this time and Ive been sexually active for 3 years… what should i do ?
Posted on: November 21st, 2009 at 4:29 pm
shailesh Says:
last month during intercourse blood comes from penis skin,it was not came from urine part but from skin which is thin joint with penis.i have this problem for two times.do you have remedy for this.thanx
Posted on: November 23rd, 2009 at 8:39 pm
dont know what to do Says:
Im on the pill and i usally skip my period so i get it say every 3 or 4 months and never bleed in between. but recently it was time to have my period so i did and then like a week or two later when i was having sex with my girlfriend i bled. Alot. like i was having my period. There was quite alot and it went for about a week. Then it stopped and i waited a few days and we tried it again.. and i bled again but not half as much this time. She is really worried about me.. what do i do? i dont really wanna go to the doctors unless i have to. could it be the way we are having sex even though we have never had any trouble before? What do u think could be wrong with me??
Thank you
Posted on: November 27th, 2009 at 12:49 am
vijay Says:
i am 22 years male.while doing sex with my girlfriend blood come out from my penis lower side and i wan to know that why this blood come out & secondly is anything happen if the blood goes inside my girlfriend suggest me asap
Posted on: November 28th, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Ishita Says:
Hi,
I’m getting married next month.
M really excited bout that like
anyone else.Want to know the things
that one should take care of while
doing sex for the first time.
Posted on: December 4th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
allyson Says:
5 days before my period i started bleeding during sex and it was painfull is this normal ?
Posted on: December 4th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
David Says:
Hey, my girlfriend have some kind of dark red blood come out from her vagina every day (not period). we use to have sex but both of us “was” virgin so its no STI. she also got some kind of yellow stuff inside her vagina, but no burning or itching, we think it may be an infection
but, in her culture they are not allowed to have sex until marriage (super important), so she cant go to the doctor, so what shall we do to cure it?
we have done a douche with water, salt and garlic today, but we wanna make sure that it dissapear. i also make her eat alot of yoghurt. but what more can we do to make it cure???
Posted on: December 6th, 2009 at 4:17 pm
Emma Says:
me and my boyfriend have been having sex for quite a while now but for the past few months they first time in a day that we have sex its fantastic however if we have sex again that day or even the day after i bleed either ALOT or just a bit and it really is upsetting for me, my boyfriends really nice about it all but i think its gross! im going to go the doctor and get cchecked out but i dont understand why it doesnt happen the first time we have sex its always after the first
Posted on: December 10th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Feyisetan Says:
Am i goin 2 bleed d first time am goin 2 have sex and is it goin 2 hurt me.am afraid pls bcos am still a virgin.
Posted on: December 12th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
kiranhundal Says:
My boyfriend doesn't feel excited for long time during sex
Posted on: December 21st, 2009 at 11:58 pm
mutin Says:
hellow Dr. am a lady having an affair for 8 months now… of late have noticed that whenever we make love with my man.. after sex i noticed blood from his penis. at first i thought it was me starting my monthly period but discovered it wasent me it was my man bleeding through his penis…. now Dr. am scared to confront him i now know its him having that problem… am really scared what could be his problem? what causes that… is he sick or what Dr ? please help.
Posted on: December 23rd, 2009 at 12:04 pm
rob Says:
I'm a 14 year old male and i bleed when i have sex
Posted on: December 28th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
blabaa Says:
I went to the doctor to have a health check after i found out for the 1st time i had bleed during sex i had a std test to be on the safe side and a cervical smear test everythin was health and fine
last week during penertration with my partner i bleed during sex again and this time it was more it looked like my partner had murded me i was very embarrassd and upset and my partner told me it was fine
I am 24 and a lesbian and i have not ever had sex with a man so i am wondering if i have lost my virginty? or it was to rough although it felt comfterble i do not understand i have all kinds of test to come back and be told everything is helthy
so why dose this happen to me?
Posted on: December 29th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
kellie12345 Says:
i dont feel ready but at the same time do. i feel embarssed about it. he has lost it but i aint. i have read that is is painfull sometimes, but thats not what i am worried about. i dont no how to have have sex properly. and i dont want something embarssing to happen. It might no fit if ou get me.
Posted on: January 2nd, 2010 at 12:53 am
sunny Says:
Dr. i had just married n my age is 34. During intercorse i had pain at skin and skin couldnot get back easily so sperm comes out sonn after intercourse
Posted on: January 13th, 2010 at 1:31 pm
peaches1212 Says:
ive been on the injection pill for ova a yr now and dnt have periods…all of a sudden wen i have sex with my other half i bleed!nothing b4 thou or nothing after..i dnt understand y…ne ideas??
Posted on: January 13th, 2010 at 8:23 pm
Jojo357 Says:
This is what i am experiencing right now. it is very embarassing and i dont know what to do, i have booked a doctors appointment in a fw days but i want to know now! Its really stressng me out. i was wondering if you ever found out what it was?
Posted on: January 21st, 2010 at 4:28 pm
hshshs Says:
i am 20 year married girl… i hav irregular periods n having problems in getting peregnant.. sometimes when we hav sex it bleeds.. what might be the reason????
Posted on: February 1st, 2010 at 10:21 am
kay26 Says:
i had some pre cancerous cells removed 6 weeks ago and i have had sex twice in the last week. Each time i have bled during intercourse. Is this something i should be concerned about and consult my gp bout??
Posted on: February 7th, 2010 at 10:14 pm
adam Says:
Hi my girlfriend would often bleed after we practice oral sex.i hav enever penetrated in her.what can be the cause knowing she has never had sex ?
Posted on: February 11th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
sunnyp Says:
hollo doctor . i want a help from u . when i a m doing sex with my girl friend .i get bleeding from my penies . what is the proble in me .plz help me.
Posted on: February 13th, 2010 at 2:32 pm
mimi Says:
the same thing happen to me
Posted on: February 16th, 2010 at 4:39 am
Name Tina Says:
I am pms-ing should start any day now, during my boyfriend is fairly large, during intecourse I felt him touch the back wall of my vagina a few times, a tad bit uncomfortable then I felt something pop and I bled. That night and today that haven't bled what was that?
Posted on: February 19th, 2010 at 9:00 pm
ameena Says:
i have a problem during sex what i should do?
so tell me please
Posted on: February 21st, 2010 at 5:51 am
canuckschick Says:
I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. For the last few weeks, after we've had sex the outter of my vagina would bleed constanstly. I need help. I'm scared.
Posted on: February 23rd, 2010 at 5:46 am
Name missy Says:
i bleed very bad during and after and dont know why and it hurts for bout 2 days after we have sex what could it be there took mt tubes out thinking that was the problem but its worse now then what it was before they took them out
Posted on: February 23rd, 2010 at 6:20 pm
john Says:
I am a 44 year old gay male. I have been having a problem with blood in my semen and peeing blood right after intercourse. It only happens if I have intercourse. everything is normal with oral sex or masturbation. I have been tested for std's all is normal. Doctor said it is accute prostitus. Why does the blood only show up with intercourse.
Posted on: February 23rd, 2010 at 9:19 pm
sophielouise Says:
Hello i wonder if you can help me?
i had sex with my boyfriend yesterday twice, and he cummed in me both times the first time when i was sitting their i felt like water was coming out, like in little bits, like ” drip drap “
then the second time nothing happened, this morning i was bleeding, does this mean im pregnant?
Posted on: March 4th, 2010 at 4:17 pm
Name help ! Says:
i have bin with my boyfriend for 4 months and the first time we had sex i bled ALOT!, but he wasnt the first man i had sex with. his penis isnt massive eather . after tht i have bled every time we had sex its not alot but am worried. i had a clamidia test and everything was ok. am worried :/ please help. i also have the implant and on the pill could this be the reason ?
Posted on: March 6th, 2010 at 9:59 pm
enrique Says:
im 12 years old i masturbate a lot and when i pee at the last bit i get a horrible cramp and then blood comes out what do i do?
Posted on: March 7th, 2010 at 2:08 am
christy Says:
well im 38 years old and i just got remarried in july of last year.. There is a problem that im worried about everytime we have sex i bleed…. What can be causing this? Im really worried.. I have had my tubes tied , cut and burned 9 years ago. What can it be?
Posted on: March 10th, 2010 at 6:05 am
Tina Uselman Says:
Hello,
I am a 20 years old and everytime I have sex with my boyfriend I bleed. Now, as soon as he ejaculates and pulls out and I go pee and wipe there is no blood I am afraid to confront him about it cause it embarrases me. Is there really something wrong I have been to the doctor 3 times now and all they told me the first time was I had a yeast infection but they never gave me anything for it. The second time I went in they told me that my boyfriend and I were just to rough, but personally I know how rough we are and we are not rough. I really personally do not want to go in again but I am really begining to get nervous cause I know that we are not suppose to bleed during sex. It never hurts when I have sex but, it is frustrating to know something may be wrong and I am not getting honest answers!
Posted on: March 11th, 2010 at 5:40 am
terica Says:
Christy, I had my tubes tied 11 yrs ago this month and been having sex every since then.. NEVER experienced bleeding during sex untill recently. I'm wondering..
Posted on: April 9th, 2010 at 1:55 pm
babygirlllyyy4254 Says:
hello there Dr. Herbenick, my question is this, my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time on friday. well it was more like an atempt, it hurt me so bad so we stopped. We tried again saturday this time i stated to bleed. tueday hoping that things would be better and less painful we tried again bleeding alot we stopped. i had been spotting since saturday and im just wondering if bleeding is normal and the pain.
thanks
Posted on: April 14th, 2010 at 1:04 am
fattiiee Says:
DR.
i had ended my period a day after i had sex and then i started bleeding again?. what can this mean?
Posted on: April 14th, 2010 at 2:58 am
jadeDiamond Says:
Hello
I have been bleeding during during intercourse, along with some pain. I also have also had two miscarriage's in the last year. I though that this ma be an STI and went to the local health unit with my patenter. They tested both of us as well as treated just in case and the results for both of us were negative. What other possibilities are there could it be cancer at 22 years old???
Posted on: April 15th, 2010 at 10:28 pm
mysexprofessor Says:
It would be unlikely but possible; however, you can get screened for gyn cancers as well as benign (non-cancerous) health conditions by a gynecologist.
Posted on: April 16th, 2010 at 12:48 pm
VICKY Says:
WELL I REALLY FEEL LIKE YOU SHOULD GO TO DR. BECAUSE THEY NEED TO DO A PAP -SMEAR I REALLY FEEL LIKE YOU SHOULD NOT TAKE NOBODY'S ADVISE ON LINE BUT TAKE IT FROM ME FOROM EXPERIENCE . I HAD BLEEDING DURING SEX AND THAT CAN BE EMBARRASSING . MY PAP SMEAR CAME OUT POSITIVE FOR CANCEROUS CELLS SO YOU GOTTA BE REAL CAREFUL. GOOD LUCK..
Posted on: April 20th, 2010 at 5:52 pm
kat Says:
hey i have been having sex with my boyfriend but the past 2-3 times i have bleed a little what is it
Posted on: April 22nd, 2010 at 12:14 pm
bonbon33 Says:
I have been having sexual intercoarse with my husband, I'am 33 he 34, just today I noticed lots of blood during sex, just this Easter I had to be rushed to ER with slipped disc in my back , could this be related!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted on: April 25th, 2010 at 12:58 am
teri1994 Says:
Dr, im very concerned about my bleeding, im on the injection but still bleeding. also getting alot of discharge what could that be.
Posted on: April 29th, 2010 at 10:23 am
blahh blahh Says:
i was just wondering. . . if a woman has gotten fingered before , does it make it easier for the penis to go thru easier ?
Posted on: April 30th, 2010 at 7:47 pm
biswrana Says:
i am a 27 years married man…….i did my first intercourse with my mate but she didn't bleed?i asked her did she had sex with other before but she refused.
is she telling me lie or is it possible that bleeding is not occure always in first intercourse for a girl?
Posted on: May 1st, 2010 at 7:47 pm
arjun Says:
i used to have sex with my x girl friend very often and once when i had sex i started getting bleeding in my dick and even now when i have sex with other girls my cock bleeds can u tell me why and what can be done
Posted on: May 4th, 2010 at 9:11 pm
charliee Says:
im 16 and every time i have sex i bleed during it :/ but then when we stop the bleeding stops :/ i dont want to tell my mum and dad as i dont want them to find out im having sex :/ i dont know what to do helpp ??
Posted on: May 9th, 2010 at 10:18 am
Bob Says:
you should have had sex long time ago…
Posted on: May 14th, 2010 at 7:49 pm
swati Says:
i have skipped my period after having sex,what should i do i don't want to be pregnanent?
Posted on: May 22nd, 2010 at 1:11 pm
maxine Says:
i've missed 3 /4 periods then i suddenly come on but i only come on for about 1 day if that , does it mean anything?
Posted on: June 7th, 2010 at 5:24 pm
clare Says:
same happend to me and im trying to figure it out also.???
Posted on: June 7th, 2010 at 8:31 pm
shayamsundaranand Says:
i am shayam sundar anand.and i do marrige before one month. but my wife does not intrested in sex. so pls tell me about sex pills that i give him and that came to sex
Posted on: June 8th, 2010 at 12:00 pm
jayy Says:
why do my girlfriend sex feel different some time.
Posted on: June 9th, 2010 at 9:38 am
love09 Says:
well doctor im 15 i just had sex with my boyfriend ive been with him for 5 months iit was my 1st time haveing sex but when everything was done between me and him. He Noticed alot of blood dan he was wondering what was the cause for the blood can u pls help me beacuse im really worried it was my first time and i cant talk to my mom or noone about this pls help me!! =(
Posted on: June 11th, 2010 at 8:11 am
nomi Says:
she is lie to u blood came in first time this is the sing that girl is not used if dsnt came its mean she sexed before
Posted on: June 13th, 2010 at 10:24 am
Haawkeye Says:
hello for all who have bleeding in the penis during intercourse you need to talk to your Doctor and those who are age10 thru 19 you should keep ur dick in ur pants and females keep ur legs closed these boys are not only having sex with you they fuck tons of other girls and these days HPV is out here it is a STD men carries it and do not know it but they can pass it to u and u will have CERVICAL CANCER if if goes untreated, it seems like everyone is fucking each other.
http://www.videojug.com/…/what-could-be-wrong-if-you... this site is for the men with bleeding penis
Posted on: June 16th, 2010 at 10:19 am
Rainwalker Hawkeye Says:
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Posted on: June 16th, 2010 at 10:20 am
Rainwalker Hawkeye Says:
only virgins bleeds on their first time other women bleeds due too some blood vessels breaking or a toy pleasure of foreplay with fingers
Posted on: June 16th, 2010 at 10:25 am
Maddie Says:
You should go to your local health unit for a pap test. That's what I did because your doctor probably won't find out and your parents won't be informed at all.
Chances are that the only reason you bleed during sex and not after is because his penis is forcing the blood to come out and when you stop the blood just sits in there.
Posted on: June 18th, 2010 at 1:44 am
curious Says:
I am 27 just got married. Before I never experience bleeding with other partner before. But, I don't know why this time i got bleed, , I got bleeding a lot then we stopped,and my partner penis is big is that the reason why i got bleed..or some thing else…do i need to see doctor?
Posted on: June 20th, 2010 at 7:29 pm
BobbyDigital Says:
hahahaha ur probably gonna honour kill her if she has been shagged before so im gonna say that bleeding doesnt always occur, save a life!
Posted on: June 22nd, 2010 at 10:26 pm
lu lu . Says:
it would be best if your partner fingered you a little before, putting his penis in. I think it is less painful, and it helps you get more comfortable with having sex.
Posted on: June 23rd, 2010 at 6:01 pm
Angelmonkey72482 Says:
you guys need to understand that all women and men are diffrent, i never bled the first time i had sex, it was the seccond time i had sex that i bled, so PLEASE don't go ruining a relationship/marriage by assuming about a girl! TALK to her bout it first before assuming!
Posted on: June 24th, 2010 at 7:05 am
Sara Oconnor Says:
please have sex with me im dieing for sex
Posted on: June 26th, 2010 at 10:14 am
sammi212 Says:
wat doe it ean when a man bleeds when coming?
Posted on: June 27th, 2010 at 9:37 pm
Wykedmo Says:
i have a problem and i am scared for my gf.i had sex with my gf after having sex i was fingering her.sometimes hard.when i took my finger out there was blood all over my finger.this is the first time that this happened to her.i always finger hurt but now im scared in do not know what to do help me.
Posted on: June 28th, 2010 at 4:06 am
Amit_chandra Says:
I m newly marrige boy, i have sex with my mate in first intercourse she was in monthly period but she did'nt bleed. I want to know she had sex with other before marriage.
Posted on: June 28th, 2010 at 11:55 am
tiff Says:
damnn your too young to be having sex!
Posted on: June 30th, 2010 at 6:37 am
Birdi3baby Says:
actually thats a lie. because from experience i did not bleed the 1st time i had sex! which was like 2 years ago an today was the 1st time i bled.. so maybe you shouldnt be so sure of yourself smart ass
Posted on: July 2nd, 2010 at 4:14 am
Mr.Helpful Says:
a common thing that people belive is that bleeding is some serious thing most of the time it is due to having to much sex or your just growing and things are stretching i say wait about 2 weeks if its light bleeding a month if it heavy bleeding…………….i mean ppl dont run to the hospital if they have a cut on there finger they let it heal
Posted on: July 4th, 2010 at 1:00 am
Tafara morrison Says:
thanks for your advice on when my boyfriend had sex then i saw spot of blood in my underwear, but it was due the fact that he was have sex to rough but am fine know that it was that an nothing more
Posted on: July 4th, 2010 at 3:25 am
05andersong Says:
I WANT A BIG BLACK COCK IN MY ARSE, I WANT IT TO FILL IT UP SO GOOD THAT I BLEED.
Posted on: July 6th, 2010 at 10:56 pm
twinkle Says:
lol
Posted on: July 7th, 2010 at 1:49 pm
Luciana Says:
o menino sangro e ele é transa com todas, dentro da minha amiga e depois ela foi no banheiro e ainda saiu um pouco e pior eles transaram sem camisinhaa e normal ? sera que ele ta com uma doença e agora passo pra ela ?
Posted on: July 8th, 2010 at 1:55 am
Garrettlaangel Says:
I want to know since I don't have a period on a regular basic I want to know if there are a chance of me getting pregnant.
Posted on: July 10th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
XpuccaxX Says:
i didnt bleed the first time i had sex.. if a girl got fingered or anything, that already caused their hymen to be broken
Posted on: July 11th, 2010 at 4:48 am
Maryriefler2 Says:
well i was a virgin when i had sex with my boyfriend. i didnt bleed, but i think it was because i started using tampons before that. the tampons hurt when first using. so maybe she would use toys or tampons before you?
Posted on: July 12th, 2010 at 6:03 am
SmartAss Says:
Your An idiot; think about what you just said “this morning i was bleeding, does this mean im pregnant? ” – think about it now – Blood = period + Period = NOT pregnant. Also Girl Below me – Your also an idiot.
Posted on: July 13th, 2010 at 4:36 pm
SmartAss Says:
yet again another idiot – although you should definetly check yourself out for having blood coming from your 'penis' not penies by the way, how old are you seriously come on people!
Posted on: July 13th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
SmartAss Says:
i feel sorry for your boyfriend, but yeah get yourself tested.
Posted on: July 13th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
louise Says:
iv been tested for all stds 3weeks ago havnmt slept with anyone from then till now and i had sex today and bleed what does that mean
Posted on: July 14th, 2010 at 8:45 pm
sara Says:
that happened to me too!! its weird
Posted on: July 15th, 2010 at 8:49 am
One_thousand_kisses_deep Says:
A woman's hymen (membrane that covers the opening of the vagina) can break from a number of things. Horseback riding, bicycle riding, tampons, playing sports, falling down. and even very heavy periods A hymen is not a perfect indicator wether the woman is a virgin or not. I know alot of women who did not bleed their first time.
Posted on: July 15th, 2010 at 6:52 pm
ljt Says:
After my last month's period was over, every time me and my partner had sex I bled during and a little after sex. There would also be a salty scent, and would experience discharge and an odor for about 3 days after sex. This would happen every time we had sex. Neither one of us had any disease or had any other partner, so I knew it wasn't something like that, but Id never bled before like that. However this month's period is over, and I have not bled like I did last month after sex, everything is back to normal…I have no idea what it was. Any suggestions?
Posted on: July 23rd, 2010 at 1:33 am
lil_girlie Says:
im 11 and i masterbated for my 1st time 2day. i didnt do it for very long but when i was done i bleed and im scared. can sum1 tell me why im bleeding? i cant go to a docter because i cant let my mom know that i mastubated. PLZ HELP ME :'(
Posted on: July 25th, 2010 at 6:36 am
Bellydancer239 Says:
well if you want to wait and have a child in the future and not now make sure you have condums your first time should always be special so make sure your both ready for it
Posted on: July 27th, 2010 at 8:28 pm
Meganbennett Says:
i am 16 years young iv been havin sex with my partner for since may 2010 and wev been okay but the last 2 days iv been bleeding during sex it only happens when i have sex then after it i get blood in my underwear' but iv only ever had sex with him and he's only ever had sex with me we was both virgin's befor we met… what's the problem?
Posted on: July 27th, 2010 at 10:06 pm
Keeshadomond Says:
did you go to the doctor to check it out.and did you have sex .
Posted on: July 28th, 2010 at 4:26 pm
Sam Says:
hey have you heard stop beging a jerk cause right now you have a smart mouth. and ps keep your mouth stut next time.
Posted on: July 28th, 2010 at 4:31 pm
Sam Says:
what are you trying to say. and can you lose your virginty by a girl
Posted on: July 28th, 2010 at 4:34 pm
Sam Says:
first watch your mouth what ever your name is first off. you call yourself a smartass pleace….not ever person is perfect os get it throught your haed
Posted on: July 28th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Carly Says:
did he pop your cherry if he did then your not a virgin. i had a foursome and that was my first time i had lose my virginted and i didn't bleed. and ps it was a good time
Posted on: July 28th, 2010 at 4:46 pm
Keesha Says:
you should go to the doctor and get check out. and thats wired and i understand my mom doesn't know i having sex i hed sex 6 time 1st was a foursome and one was a friend of my.
Posted on: July 28th, 2010 at 4:51 pm
Tinahh<3 Says:
Okay,,
dudes,, if your bleeding during sex, it means you have blood in your sperm and you should get that checked out.
Girls, it can mean alot of different things.
i am 15 and i started having sex at 13.hey things happen and im not proud of it.
but i have the same problem sometimes.
if your on DEPO(birth control shot) and its almost time to renew it,
it can just be that your body wants to start the monthly cycle but theres a blood clot.
gross but yes, when you have sex it knocks it loose.
Another reason, you may not have been turned on enough and you ripped it.it'll stop in a few days,
of you have an infection, check it.
AND PEOPLE! stop getting on peoples cases about when they have sex!if they wanted to wait then thats their decision,and if they did it young, so be it.no changing it now.
-Tinahh yo(:
Posted on: July 29th, 2010 at 8:44 am
Iyke Says:
i had protected sex on her menstruation period, do u think i am infected with disease? the condom did not break.
Posted on: July 29th, 2010 at 5:09 pm
Rozita_1983 Says:
I have a problem…I am a virgin and I’ve never had sex (intercourse) before ,today I was with my friend and we had some sexual moments, and we decided to go further, so we tried anal sex, during it slipped a little bit and I stopped him because I thought he hit my vagina, and we continued,,,after two hours I went back home, and I found bleeding, weird one,,it is close to brown blood and not pure red one…but I didn’t feel it inside…did I lose my virginity? Did anyone have such a problem before?
Posted on: July 30th, 2010 at 8:03 pm
Starcherb Says:
Dude your penis is never supposed to bleed during sex that is ALWAYS an indicator of something wrong you probably have some sort of infection or STD get checked ASAP get tested ASAP…
Posted on: July 31st, 2010 at 1:38 am
Kira_doo Says:
mur I am scared I am a 14 year old girl, I was on my period and I masturbated with a sharpie [cape on but I used the end] when I did so, when I woke up this morning I wasn't on my period no more…I don't know what happened…help?
Posted on: July 31st, 2010 at 9:26 pm
pamelaq Says:
i been with my boyfriend for over a year, always had great sex, but the last couple of times we done it, he dies while he's in me,(literally,dead) what the hell does that mean? he said that happened because he was too hot, he needed a moment to start over. after a couple of minutes we started again and yeah we got on it again and actually finished. is this kind of things normal? it never happened to me with anyone else i've been with.
Posted on: August 2nd, 2010 at 3:31 am
Young_idgaf Says:
okay i just lost my virginity like yesterday,and i popped my cherry and when pee it bleeds and i dont know whats wrong.?
Posted on: August 3rd, 2010 at 7:45 am
Young_idgaf Says:
same thing happend with me,then the next 2 days i was bleeding too..
Posted on: August 3rd, 2010 at 7:52 am
AngeloftheNight Says:
My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time 16th of June straight after my period…28 or so days later my period started as normal…the day beffore though we had sex again…then this last monday two days before my period should start again we had sex…he didnt cum in me…hepulled out like every time, but he lasted a lot longer, we were there for like 45 mins instead of like 10 lol….but its been 32 days since my last period and i'm still not on…could I be pregnant or could it be an iregualrity like what happend once before..I didn't have a boyfriend (he's my very first one) and I was 40 days into my period before I came on…….. Please help >.<
Posted on: August 9th, 2010 at 2:45 pm
Kellim88 Says:
I'm 15 years old and I believe I'm ready to have sex, but I'm scared because my boyfriend has a very HUGE penis.. He has performed oral sex on me before, and that hurted a little. Will it hurt worse when we have sex?
Posted on: August 10th, 2010 at 4:54 am
Ian Says:
it depends if your wife does any kind of exercise if she does she may not bleed the first time, but thats still a maybe, but if she doesn't, then she could be lying to you, if you ask her why she didn't bleed and she says “i dont know” she might be lying.
Posted on: August 10th, 2010 at 5:36 am
Reboudngirl34 Says:
yea niether did i ! its said that women that have played sports in there life time dont bleed the first time they do it !
Posted on: August 14th, 2010 at 6:25 am
Summer Says:
Just a random note id like to talk about to do with this topic.
i had sex for the first time a few months ago with my friend.
we didnt use a condom, and it hurt a lot, it was kinda rough/fast too.
i was due for my period, but i guess it didnt stop be from having sex.
it kinda happened so fast, i wasnt stimulated at all, he just went in and then after 5-10mins i started bleeding, heavily.
in fact i lost a lot of blood, probably because we took it fast and didnt use a condom.
i went to the doctors and they said theres a tear, but it will soon heal and the bleeding will stop.
it did, and then the next day it continued to be a regular period.
but im afraid, that this will happen again, even if i take it slower, and become stimulated before having sex.
help?
Posted on: August 15th, 2010 at 5:06 am
Miss_M25 Says:
Okay. For one: do not be calling any sort of people “stupid”. When you, yourself, cannot even puncuate or have correct grammar.
Posted on: August 17th, 2010 at 12:22 am
shanead Says:
Hey Enrique! Aaaaw bless! Maybe it’s b’cos ur masturbating way too roughly that ur rupturing ur delicate blood vessels from ur bladder which in turn results in giving you the discomforts ur experiencing. Whilst it’s perfectly normal to be experimenting at ur age, do be careful as this may lead to further complications…..e.g, a bladder infection! Meanwhile….ENJOY!
Posted on: August 17th, 2010 at 3:23 pm
Fayfay8778 Says:
she could have popped her cherry from masturbation too stupid
Posted on: August 17th, 2010 at 6:41 pm
Destofano Says:
“bellydancer239″ is right, make sure your both ready but, if your married and faithful in each other then condoms aren’t necessary, have her use the pill and you pull out before it happens. i wish you good luck on you new life friend
Posted on: August 17th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
Lola Says:
i was pregnant not long ago its normal but you should be more clean about it cause you could get a bladder infection…
Posted on: August 18th, 2010 at 5:27 pm
Sexy_lilchica92 Says:
she might not be ling she could have been raped before and just never told you… i have sex and i have never bled before
Posted on: August 21st, 2010 at 3:13 am
thoms Says:
hi
yes she had intercourse before she married cuz all we knows that when we have sex first time then broken hymen.
it is necessarily
Posted on: August 21st, 2010 at 1:20 pm
Billa_tommi Says:
dont worry if she didnt bleed the first time some women dont. i didnt bleed the first i had intercourse i bled the third time.
ask her if she played sports when she was younger my sister ran track when she was younger and broke her hymen then
Posted on: August 21st, 2010 at 5:47 pm
LosT SouL Says:
Angelmonkey72482:
is that true cuz i have sex with my gf and she say thats the first time i have asked her she say no i dident do it befor but i dont know why she dident bleed :S i hope thats true what u say Angelmonkey72482
Posted on: August 21st, 2010 at 9:33 pm
Kaurshona Says:
hei…..i m a girl nd my bf said me dat i shud have sex wd hm coz he thinks dat i m nt serious wd hm bt i love hm a lot…i m serious bt he still wants sex wd me……shud i agree????shud i say hm yes…??actually i fear dat it would cause bleeding nd may b lead 2 pregnancy..plz help……..
Posted on: August 22nd, 2010 at 5:54 am
Elena5 Says:
Hiya…
yesterday had my first real sex (before we would just lie on the bad and he would “play” with me not that going deep but “knocking” at the entrance and yesterday we did it like normal couple)… a bit pain but no blood and second time went perfectly no pain at all and no bleeding… Boyfriend asked me to tell truth about me not being Virgin and I feel awful cause I have no idea what’s going on =( he said he had sex with virgins 3 times and all of them had pain and blood.
we are planing to get married but I don’t wanna be lier in his eyes,even though he says he still loves me and doesn’t care was I virgin or no (I know he does)… Please help.
Posted on: August 22nd, 2010 at 12:47 pm
Priyanshi Behl6 Says:
some time girls not bleeds during their first sex coz they has already lost blood of their body
during their menses
Posted on: August 23rd, 2010 at 4:20 pm
Tonidisuza Says:
during pissing blood is also coming from vagina,what kind of this problem is?
Posted on: August 23rd, 2010 at 6:35 pm
Sjvivanco Says:
how do you know when he is gonna sperm
Posted on: August 23rd, 2010 at 6:51 pm
questionable Says:
i had sex before and i was bleeding does this accur a lot
Posted on: August 26th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
Rl678 Says:
my boyfriends penis ripped my asshole in half and I also had to go to the hospita for abruised colan
Posted on: August 26th, 2010 at 7:13 pm
fkshf Says:
i am 16 years old and pregnant my boyfriend gave me hpv…and i was wondering if its bad to still have sex while we both hav hpv…im also curious and scared to find out if my hpv will go away on its own or if i would have to get treatment….life isnt fair!!
Posted on: August 28th, 2010 at 4:00 am
Sharmasanjana91 Says:
when i hav done sex with my girlfriend then she did not bleed. what can be the reason .she is saying it was her first time
Posted on: August 28th, 2010 at 9:45 am
motherof3 Says:
Or she is saying I don’t know because she doesn’t know. I never bled from sex. I have no clue why
Posted on: August 30th, 2010 at 7:54 am
miguel torres Says:
i was having sex with this chick then i pulled my dick out n found it was bleeding not a little but a lot
what could be the cause of that is it cuz she was that tight
what should i do if it still bleeds
Posted on: August 30th, 2010 at 6:34 pm
Luke_age Says:
no it doesnt if i girl uses toys or in some cases a tampon she can cuse that bleed herself
Posted on: September 1st, 2010 at 9:52 pm