Woman on top is one of the most commonly chosen sexual intercourse positions in many Western countries and yet it is also one of the more challenging sex positions for couples. Many women and men are unsure what to do once the woman gets on top and some men find that it is difficult to maintain their erection in [...]
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Okay, it’s not exactly like Downward-Facing Dog in yoga, but it does give you an idea of what’s to come, right? One of the cool things about the way human beings have sex is that we are one of the few species that has sex face-to-face, which makes it easier to whisper sweet nothings and [...]
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There are a ton of different names for this position, but I like to call it The Shoulder Holder, which is what Men’s Health magazine refers to it as in their Position Finder (some of you may know that I also work as the Men’s Health sex columnist). The Shoulder Holder requires a few things, [...]
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Question: My wife and I were both virgins when we got married, so even though we are almost 30, we lack experience. Hence my question: where is a woman’s g spot? Does every woman have one? Answer: Technically speaking, the g spot is more like a zone than a spot (yes, I know, in spite [...]
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Yeah, I know. You’re probably thinking how often you’ve heard about the wonders of woman-on-top (WOT) only to find that, um, it kind of sucks. At least for some of you. Some of you probably love it and others are, like, meh. The thing about WOT is that it’s yours for the taking. There are [...]
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If you’ve never heard of the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) technique, today is your lucky day. Mark it on your calendar and treat yourself to a glass of champagne on this day, every year, for the rest of your life. Or at least as long as you’re still enjoying CAT. In many ways, CAT is [...]
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- In Velocity, check out my responses to a guy who was wondering whether he should get his booty-calling-ex a holiday gift and to a woman whose boyfriend wants her to grow her nails long so she can scratch his back (yes, in that way) – that Dec 31 column can be found on the [...]
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Question: I have a new girlfriend and she’s a virgin and has never been touched. Each time I try to touch her she says it hurts but she wants me to do it anyway. But I dont want to hurt her. How can i make her like it?
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This week on Cheeky Chicago, you can find me talking about one of the most well-researched sex positions of all time: the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) - which, among male-female couples, has been found to be an easier sex position for some women to reach orgasm in. Is it perfect? No. Will all women who try CAT [...]
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Okay, a few things: 1. I am all for variety when it comes to sex. 2. I think it’s kind of funny when people combine pop culture and sex (how many men out there have wanted to re-enact George Costanza’s desire to have a sandwich during sex?) 3. It can be good to explore different [...]
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